Slow and steady wins the race. The oddest thing I noticed was that the initial penetration would generate a tight sensation in my throat, similar to what you might feel after a bad scare. But on top of the physical discomfort, I also felt ashamed. Is it different or the same? I think that's one of the best parts of the whole ordeal. So what. The sneakiness is what really turned me off.
He tried to put it in, but it just hurt too much.
I Genuinely Like Anal Sex—and I’m Tired of Feeling Bad About It
Either stop or communicate with your partner. The bottom of it — 10 misconceptions of anal sex ]. He has never refused! Because, again, I thought that was just someone who is sexually curious. Tank Driver Member 34, posts. Just lose all inhibitions and let go. The fucked up part is that I could sense it was actually important to him—like he would be measuring my affection in anal terms—so I bounced out of the relationship for good.